SU Community Rules

The Sunshine YOUniversity Community is your space to connect, share, encourage, and inspire. It’s up to us to keep the Sunshine YOUniversity Community a safe, accepting and JUDGMENT FREE ZONE for everyone.

Below are the rules.

Be kind. We have a zero tolerance policy for bullying, harassment, or belittling. Encourage and support your fellow SU students. Never make anyone feel unwanted or judged; treat everyone with respect and acceptance. If you disagree or have an opposing viewpoint to share, do it with respect and from a place of empathy and compassion. Debate is great, but making anyone feel inferior or foolish or embarrassed is not acceptable. Violation of this rule is grounds for immediate and permanent removal from the community without a refund.

Don’t trash talk. This program is all about learning to have confidence and be an adult.  That means being able to speak your mind in a respectful way and dealing directly with any issues that arise. If you have an issue or grievance -- either with the program, or each other, bring it directly to the party you have issue with. Find a resolution between you. It’s the adult way to handle the situation. If you feel it’s important for us to know, please take screenshots, collect your records of the transactions or communications, and write

Help others.  As you go through the classes, you'll grow and change.  If you see someone struggling who has just started out, offer support and encouragement.  Share what helped you move through the classes.


This community is strictly for paid (up to date) members of Sunshine YOUniversity in good standing. 

We don’t own Facebook. If they change their terms or decide to start charging for Facebook groups, that may limit or remove our ability to keep the Facebook group open and running. Similarly, if group guidelines are not honored and upheld, the Facebook group may also be eliminated.

The primary intention of the group is to connect with other girls your age and share experiences and strategies to build confidence.

This is also not a professional support group or a place to receive accredited therapy. Share support and camaraderie in a friendly way but this is not the environment for psychological counseling.  If you feel you need more support, let a parent or teacher know that you are struggling and need additional support.

Opinions, advice and all other information expressed by members in discussions or comments are those of the author. You rely on such information at your own risk. Members are urged to seek professional advice for specific, individual situations and not rely solely on advice or opinions given.

We take a strong stand on values, so please make sure you’re clear on what’s OK and what’s not.


We really hope that this never happens. But here’s how we might handle it:

We might delete your post without notice. If something is deleted, it’s probably not an accident - either too many people reported it or Sunshine YOUniversity found it unsuitable and removed it.

We might reach out to you to say that you’re in violation of Sunshine YOUniversity's terms (we will give you the benefit of the doubt but we take this program and its members very seriously).

We might remove you from Sunshine YOUniversity.

If you have any questions about our guidelines, or if there’s a question we haven’t answered here, please write us at

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